Poems and Readings for Funerals

When choosing a piece of narrative to be read at the funeral of a loved one it can be difficult to know where to begin. You want it to have meaning and reflect them as a person, but it must also include how you feel about their passing. Should it reflect the sadness of their passing or celebrate the rich life they led?

 Below are some readings we’ve heard at funerals that we have found particularly moving and meaningful. Hopefully, this will point you in the right direction and help with your decision process.

 

Waterbugs and Dragonflies by Doris Stickney

This is a beautiful and incredibly moving piece. It was originally written to explain death to young children. It is most suited to someone who has passed away before their time but can be read for anyone leaving loved ones behind. 

Link here: https://www.rainbowsbridge.com/belovedhearts/stories/doris-waterbugsanddragonflies-632617144169637500.aspx

 

I Carry Your Heart by E.E. Cummings

A touching poem about keeping your loved one with you in your heart after they have passed away.

Link here: https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/help-resources/arranging-a-funeral/planning-the-service/funeral-poems/i-carry-your-heart

 

To Those Whom I Love & Those Who Love Me by Anonymous Author

A poem from the viewpoint of the person being laid to rest about leaving a spouse or partner behind.

Link here: https://fastfuneralprinting.com/to-those-whom-i-love-and-those-who-love-me/

 

Afterglow by Helen Lowrie

A short funeral poem about happy memories living on.

Link here: https://www.spirare.name/afterglow-helen-lowrie-marshall/

 

She Is Gone (He Is Gone) based on verse by David Harkins

An uplifting poem about recalling positive memories and being grateful for your loved one’s life rather than grieving. Link here: https://www.funeralguide.co.uk/help-resources/arranging-a-funeral/planning-the-service/funeral-poems/she-is-gone-he-is-gone

 

We hope one of these meaningful funeral readings suitably represents your loved one and your feelings towards their passing, no matter which type of funeral you decide to have.

Olivia Wiles